Thursday 19 September 2013

TOP 10 ATTRACTION SECRETS WOMEN KNOW THAT MEN DO NOT!

10 Attraction Secrets Women Know That Men Don't Know.

Women know much more about how to attract someone than men. They are very good at getting people to notice them, they've got lots of experience in getting men to like them, and doing virtually anything they want.

Below are ten attraction secrets women know, and use to attract men.

1. Knowing What You Want:

A lot of men are often hoodwinked into accepting whatever they can get. Women tends to get a lot of suitors coming there way or hovering around them, so they can be a little bit more picky. When you know what you want in a partner, you're not only screening potential candidates, but you're also making a very powerful statement as well. You are as well showing that you aren't desperate and that you're the one with the power of decision, because you're certainly doing the judging, and the one that must be chased after.

2. Be The Prize:

Being the one that is being chased after, invariably means you've got a certain amount of value to add to the life of others. They want you for some reasons, so its now their job to run after you to get you. In order for these to happen, you must place a certain amount of value on yourself. You must feel like you worth to be chased after by others, and also communicate these with your actions and attitudes. Women always gets a lot men trying to impress them, but its the rare man they want to impress, who will definitely wind up with them.

3. Dress To Impress: 

Women attaches so much importance on how they look. It is because of these reason that many of them gets the attention of men. They understand that what you wear gets others to notice you. Infact, it is because women are so much in-tune with fashion, they really tend to notice how a man dresses. A man who understands how to cultivate his own appearance and looks great, will definitely get a lot of attention from women. Not just because he looks nice, but because he's communicating he understands how important appearance is to them.

4. Smelling Fantastic:

Too often, men ignore the sense of smell. They do not bother about how they smell, nor putting on a cologne or after-shave. But women knows that if you're going to get someone's attention, you need to appeal to their sense of smell. Wearing a fantastic and sweet-smelling cologne around a woman can do all the magic to make her aroused in your presence.

5. Be Interesting:

Despite all the physical traits involved in attraction, having nothing but good looks can wear thin very quickly. This is why it's important to be interesting. Being interesting obviously means having something to talk about, that the other person you want to attract can relate to. Being up-to-date on current events and happenings in music, fashion, dance, books or anything very interesting thats worth discussing about, can help to continously make a woman feel interested in spending quality time with you. But in addition to knowing what to talk about, you also need to develop a listening attitude, and let the other person relate to you also. After all, nothing is more interesting than someone who's interested in you.

6. Doing What's Unexpected:

Doing what's unexpected of you can create an atmosphere of excitement and uncertainty around you. It keeps a lot of people on their feet and attentive when around you. Of course, you shouldn't be comical when doing the unexpected, such as, suddenly using abusive words or doing something ridiculous. Instead you've got to play against expectations. For instance, rather than complimenting a woman on her beautiful looks, compliment her on her intelligence, eventhough she's obviously beautiful. She probably does not get a lot of compliments on her intelligence, as most men may be too hasty in complimenting her on her beauty. These will definitely make you stand-out and different from other men. Always try to be different from other men, When you do what's unexpected of you, you keep the excitement alive.

7. Be Hot And Cold:

Emotions are certainly what must be stimulated to make attraction work. Without emotions, attraction is impossible. But too much of ones emotions is as bad as lack of emotion. Feeling good all the time, or feeling bad all the time, causes us to stray from the person we are with. When you alternate between hot and cold emotions, you create an emotional roller coaster that keeps things interesting, and your partner interested. Women do these all the time, they will act very interested and attracted to you, and make you feel very good this minute, the next minute, they'll act like you're not there, ignore you and make you feel bad. It doesn't mean they're not interested or attracted to you, it just means they want to make you feel more interested and attracted to them. These constant alternation of emotions absolutely makes the relationship fun.

8. Play Hard To Get:

No one ever appreciates that which comes very easy to them, especially if the value of it is not known. "If the value of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable". Women knows these better than men, that if they're too easy, chances are that the man will leave them after they've had an initial conquest over them. The idea of playing hard to get, makes the hunter emotionally invest themselves in the outcome of their hunt. By making a woman work for your emotions, you are getting her to commit to you, and wanting to be with.

9. Be Adventurous:

Being adventurous is different from doing what is unexpected. Adventurous is about pushing boundaries, and doing things that are new and outside your typical comfort zone. Adventurous women usually intrigue men. They make men feel alive, and those good feelings becomes associated with the woman. It works both ways, an adventurous man will easily sweep a woman off her feet. He'll make her feel alive, and she'll open up how she experiences the world around her.

10. Using Your Sexuality:

Women are aware of the fact that being sexual, and using their sexuality is a powerful tool in attracting men. But men typically have little or know idea of how to be sexual, and use it to attract women. Men often attributes sexuality to women alone, because that's how they understand sex. But men can be sexy too, and being so, will get women to become attracted just as easily as men are. The difference here is that, in order for a man to be sexy, he must act manly. He must show the best characteristics of what it is to be a man, for the woman to get turned-on. Using your sexuality as a man, means being strong, being brave or courageous, being aggressive and allowing your masculine energy to radiate from you. The more you are able to use your sexuality as a man, the more women will respond to you.

This are my lists of top ten attraction secrets women know that men do not know. Kindly post your comments to let me know what you think about them. THANKS!

 



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